SLEEPING WELL and MEDITATION this Friday

This week at the Camberwell Community Centre we will be turning attention to getting a good night's sleep (day if you are a shift-worker)

Get 7–8 hours of sleep a night!

Feel free to invite a friend and click here to reserve your place.

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Also featured in this month's newsletter:

 Group Meditation — Friday 30th October

The program for this evening will be designed to stimulate your regular practice of meditation.

Friday night Group Meditation

  • Date: Friday 30th October

  • Time: 7.30pm to 9.30pm

  • Where: Camberwell Community Centre, 405 Camberwell Road, Camberwell

  • Cost: $10 supper provided

  • Further details: click here

Program:

  • CHANT

  • SILENT MEDITATION

  • SLEEP exercises

  • GUIDED MEDITATION to improve sleep

Feel free to invite a friend and click here to reserve your place.

 SLEEPING WELL AND MEDITATION

Meditation provides a wonderful solution to insomnia.

Many of the studies on health and sleep indicate that if we are deprived of good quality sleep it negatively impacts on our energy levels, we tend to put on more weight and our senses often seem to be somewhat dulled; as if we are living life in a daze.

Meditation before bedtime is a wonderful way to develop clarity of mind and to reduce the attention that we give to things that still need to be done.

If we take our incomplete list of items to bed, it will inevitably result in fitful sleep.

Finding a peaceful and calm mind is perfect preparation before getting into bed and this can be accomplished by setting aside time to sit in stillness and allow the mind to then become still.

To be able to do this we need to set up a somewhat disciplined approach to what is a very simple practice.

There are many barriers to be encountered such as:

  • The ever present inner dialogue that is the nature of mind

  • The mind's desire to be entertained and distracted

  • The drama in our personal relationships or business life is constantly in our thoughts

A note on mental obesity

Mental obesity is the obesity of mental health, which is quite similar in origin to physical obesity. Physical obesity arises out of a lack of exercise and excessive food intake. (Particularly foods that are high in sugars and saturated fat).

The food of mental obesity is wasteful thoughts that lead to nothing constructive or positive in life and lack of mental exercise through directed and sustained focussed attention.

The greatest antidote again is in developing a regular meditation practice.

 

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 NEW COURSES - COMING SOON IN 2010

More than Meditation

Thursday 25th February, 2010

6 consecutive Thursday evenings 7pm-8.30pm
Augustine Centre - 2 Minona St, Hawthorn 3122

Each year the numbers participating in our course grow. This tells me there is increasing interest for people to learn simple and effective ways to manage the stress of living and to enhance health.

Not only is this trend of embracing mind body techniques to enhance health becoming more popular in these difficult economic times, it can be a boon to your pocketbook because there is no ongoing cost.

Details: http://www.pathways2wellbeing.com.au or to download printable brochure click here.

 

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 FOUR TECHNIQUES TO TRY TONIGHT

Better Sleep Through Meditation

Anyone who's ever experienced a fitful night of sleep knows that "just relax" is easier said than done. But do-it-yourself meditation practices may help you prepare for rest, and put worries or discomfort behind you.

These techniques work best when done right before bed, in a quiet, calming environment.

But you can also practice them several times a day, recommends Joyce Walsleben, PhD, associate professor at New York University School of Medicine.

"If you can keep your stress levels under control during the day, you'll sleep better at night," Walsleben says.

"You can even do them at your desk or on the train."

 

1. Abdominal breathing

Breathing from the abdomen and putting your attention on those breaths can help you relax both during the day and in bed at night.

Some people may enjoy lying in a dimly lit room, closing their eyes, or listening to soft music while focusing on their out breaths.

While sitting or lying in bed, try placing your hands on your belly.

"When you breathe in and breathe out, your hands may gently move," says Kathy Doner, MD, who has a full-time hypnotherapy practice in Sebastian, Florida.

"Focusing on this movement gets your mind off of your busy thoughts and onto your body. You can distract yourself and bring yourself to a different place. It's very calming."

 

2. Guided imagery

Some people imagine a calm scene to help them wind down at the end of the day. There are no rules about what you should imagine, so long as it's calming. Although clouds, the ocean, and mountains are common choices, you can focus on something as general or as specific as you want.

"I had a patient who liked to picture his office—brushing everything off his desk and going to sleep," Walsleben says.

"Other people enjoy visualizing that they're blowing bubbles. They put the stick in the jar and watch every bubble go over a field until the jar is empty."

Pick a place that feels safe, and, using your imagination, invite any or all of your senses to explore it.

"The brain doesn't always know the difference between real and imagined," says Dr. Doner.

"If you watch a scary movie, your stress response will increase, just as if you imagine eating something vividly enough, you might start to salivate."

Share Your Thoughts

What do you think about during meditation?

Guided imagery can be done alone or with a specialist, such as an hypnotherapist, or by using CD - but even when prompted by an instructor, the patient should still be the guide.

"They need to imagine someplace comfortable and peaceful," says Dr. Doner.

"I don't know where they need to go; the ocean may seem peaceful for one person, but traumatic for another."

 

3. Mindful meditation

Focusing on different aspects of your life before bed can help you earn your rest, if you're able to let those thoughts go.

"You need to look at one thing at a time, which slows things down," says Walsleben.

"Focus on an issue in your life, then let it go. The major learning experience here is letting go."

For some people, it may help to write in a journal during the day.

"For 15 minutes take those issues that run through your head at night and write them down," says Walsleben.

"Then for the next 15 minutes make a plan and write that down too. At night when the lights are off, you can't do anything about it, but by processing things in the daytime, you can."

 

4. Counting down

While lying in bed, start by gazing upward.

"A little eye strain relaxes you," says Dr. Doner.

Take an abdominal breath and hold it, and on the out breath, let everything relax. Repeat one or two times. You might then try imagining yourself walking down a flight of stairs or a gentle hill while counting down from 10 or 20, each number signifying your movement to a lower step, exhaling with each imaginary step.

"You can also weave a number of these techniques together", Dr. Doner says.

"You might start with your belly breath," she says, "then go to progressive relaxation, then down the stairs, then go to your peaceful place. You want to give people a lot of things to try."

MORE techniques for better sleep

5 Ways to Unwind in 60 Seconds

1. Stare up at the ceiling and count down from 60

Why this can help you sleep:
Gazing upward stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system, which lowers blood pressure and slows the pace of the breath. Slow, deliberate counting will also help rid your mind of distractions.

2. Write down your worries in a notebook, then set it aside for tomorrow.

Why this can help you sleep:
Putting your problems down on paper—and knowing that they're there for you to work through later—may help take your mind off of them while you're trying to rest.

3. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth 10 times.

Why this can help you sleep:
Deep breathing slows the heart rate and calms the body. Focusing on your stomach rising and falling, and your breath flowing in and out, will help you concentrate on your body, instead of outside distractions.

4. Imagine floating on a cloud, and what you would see passing by.

Why this can help you sleep:
Guided imagery is a powerful meditation tool that can give you a temporary escape from everyday worries and stresses. Invite all of your senses to participate: Imagine what you see, hear, and smell in this peaceful place.

5. Slowly tense and relax your muscles, from your head down to your toes.

Why this can help you sleep:
The body responds to stress by involuntarily tensing your muscles, which can cause pain and discomfort. Progressive muscle relaxation reduces muscle tension and general mental anxiety.

 

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 A wonderful evening of music

Here is a link to a wonderful evening of music, in the classical baroque genre, Wednesday 11th November,  if you are free. This is a type of music that has been shown to have positive therapeutic effect...Check out the numerous sites on the DNA of music (the music of our genes).

Music is a strange thing. I would almost say it is a miracle. For it stands halfway between thought and phenomenon, between spirit and matter, a sort of nebulous mediator, like and unlike each of the things it mediates — spirit that requires manifestation in time and matter that can do without space... we do not know what music is. — Heinrich Heine

Wednesday 11th November 8.00pm

Don't miss this beautiful concert with outstanding soloists & three
of the most popular works by great composers, plus a world premiere!

PERGOLESI Stabat Mater
Tania de Jong AM, soprano
Sally-Anne Russell, mezzo-soprano
MOZART Horn Concerto No.4
WALDMAN Horn Concerto in E flat
Michael Thornton, horn
HAYDN "Farewell" Symphony

Enjoy beautiful acoustics and relaxed atmosphere
at St Johns Southgate, 20 City Rd Southbank
Tickets $45, $40, $20
Book now on 9685 5111
or www.m-tix.com.au or www.melbournemusicians.com

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Feel free to invite a friend to SLEEPING WELL and MEDITATION this Friday. Click here to reserve your place.

Kind regards,
Bill and Kati Patterson
Email: billp@mbsolutions.com.au
 

 

 

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